Nowadays, cheating in relationships is not a new concern anymore. Even in marriages, infidelity has been a common problem and lots of men even call this normal—specifically for their side. As time passes by, this cheating issue seems to be more rampant in the society and there are even people who enter in relationships yet do not commit to be faithful. For them, being in a relationship does not mean that you are already tied up and have no more right to be in-love with others.
Whatever the principle a couple has in their relationship, this one thing is sure—it hurts to be cheated—even if it is only for the sake of your ego in case you do not really love your partner. Entering into an official relationship is an expressed statement of commitment and each of the couple has the responsibility to make that partnership work. Therefore, when your partner cheats on you, it feels like he does not consider you valuable enough for that commitment and it hits your pride.
What if you have an intuition or idea that your boyfriend is being unfaithful to you but you have no proof? How will you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you? What can you do to catch him? Here are 3 ways of how you can do it:
1. Sneak into his stuff
It is usual for partners to be sharing their privacy with each other. Checking of cellphones and having access to each other’s social media accounts, such as Facebook aand Twitter, are usual for boyfriends and girlfriends. However, your being allowed to be given this privilege to his things does not mean that your boyfriend is not hiding anything from you anymore. It can be that he is just careful to clean his mess before you arrive.
If you want to catch your boyfriend’s folly, you should sneak into his privacy—meaning without his knowing—like entering through the window instead of the front door. Check his phone, social networking site accounts, and even his wallet (in case he is keeping another girl’s photo in it) when he least expects it. Through this, he will not have time to delete messages or hide his secrets if there are.
2. Surprise him
Just like sneaking into his stuff, you should also sneak into him at his least expected time. If your boyfriend knows your routine of when you visit or see him, of course he will make sure that he is not with his other woman during thiose moments.
To catch him off-guarded, you should go to his place unannounced and during times that are unlikely for you to visit. If you do not know where he is at a time, you can ask an unsuspecting friend or colleague of him and say you are just to surprise him so he should not know about it. Through this, you might catch him red-handed with his no. 2.
3. Spy on him
If you are that desperate to catch him and you think you are rich, you may hire a private investigator who will follow him around all the time and report to you at the end of the day. You can also put spy cameras all round his place and in his car. Through these ways, surely your boyfriend has no escape from your eyes if he is doing some mischief at your back.
Trust is still important
However, as long as you have no evidence yet that he is cheating on you, do not totally lose your trust in your boyfriend. What if at the end you realize that you are just paranoid and he is not doing any bad actually? It will be difficult to give that trust back because you will always be suspicious of his moves.
Yes, there are many who find cheating fun and normal, but it does not mean that everyone is like that. Who knows if your boyfriend is different from them?